Components of Attraction: More on Being Offbeat/Unique

When you have an opener that sets you apart, that lets you become the chooser of which interactions you wish to pursue, its amazing how that frames your reality.

I'll share some truisms, some real experiences as evidence:

1. I will receive emails/calls from women I've met, months after we've met, because they've retained my unique personal calling card.

2. I will consistently hear genuine statements like this from women: 'thank you so much for taking the time to come up and talk to me' 'thank you for making my day' 'you are one of the most interesting people I've ever met.' They hadn't seen anything yet.

With evidence like this, I don't worry about matters like time. By that I mean I don't worry about conventional timeframes (oh gosh if I dont hear back from her in XYZ period of time than I guess I blew it.)

Why? Because when you are truly offbeat unique, comparing your interaction to the many future interactions you know she will invariably run into in the days/weeks that follow - yours will stand out. BECAUSE YOUVE LEFT AN IMPRESSION by BEING OFFBEAT/UNIQUE.

In fact the more pressure you put on someone to engage you further (lets get together this weekend, call me okay? etc...) the more you push away. However if you create an offbeat, engaging entertaining vibe where a woman feels comfortable - of course she will want to follow up.

That's just one of the reasons its important to be offbeat (not stupid or lame) - but different in talking about yourself as a women seek out, even stalk, because of your great vibe - you've just put yourself on a pedistal.

Good times.

- GiddyupGuy